These two. They both push me to my absolute limits but I love them dearly.
The big one changed my world, he made me realise my own worth. He showed me that not all men are bad, and that there are some genuine ones out there. He showed me a life I never thought was possible, with a genuine happiness that I’d never experienced before.
For years I was in dead end relationships with dick bag men who controlled me, making calls as to what I could and couldn’t do, making me feel as though that was what I deserved.
I stayed in jobs I hated because I didn’t know any different. I made poor decisions because its what I thought was best for me at the time. My priorities were screwed because I chose to let irrelevant things take a priority in my life.
And then the little one came along. He showed me what was really important. He taught me what love really was (as did the bigger version), he allowed me to learn things about myself that I never knew, discover strength and confidence that I had never previously uncovered within myself.
All it takes is one (or two) people to completely turn your life around. Have a little faith and know your worth because far to many of us undervalue ourselves.
My life has taken a complete 360 in the past 2.5 years and I would hate to think where I would be today had I continued to surround myself with toxic influences.
I don’t have all the answers, I’ve been through a lot in my time on this earth and everything I share and talk about is from my own experiences and learnings.
If you’re unhappy, make steps to change it.
Life is a beautiful thing.